Something happened at my company three weeks ago that confirmed we are moving in the right direction. And it has nothing to do with our financial performance.
In our daily morning standup meeting, a founding employee announced she was pregnant with her first baby.
The reaction from the rest of the employees told me everything I needed to know. There were smiles, shouts of congratulations, clapping, and something even more powerful, tears.
I looked around and saw many of my employees crying for joy over this exciting news.
The response confirmed something I had been feeling for a long time; we were becoming more like family than a company. There was a bond developing that was special, and it was something I hadn’t sensed since I left the military.We were becoming more like family than a company. Click To Tweet
Building a business for the past five years has felt a little like us against the world, but lately, I feel like the world doesn’t stand a chance.
My recent podcast guest, Dr. Larry Widman, confirmed what I suspected. My employees were displaying one of the essential characteristics of an elite team – love.
Let me explain.
Larry is a high-performance psychiatrist and an elite mindset coach. He works with CEOs, professional athletes, Olympians, and NCAA teams to develop the mental skills and mindset to push performance boundaries.
He said something on the podcast that stood out.
He explained that love plays a vital role in building an elite team. And this is consistent across every type of organization, from Navy Seals to NCAA National Champions.
It’s all about relationships, connections, and love.The best teams move at the speed of trust. Click To Tweet
The best teams move at the speed of trust. They are willing to fight for the person on their right and their left because they care deeply about them.
Love is the one consistent ingredient that helps propel a team from great to elite.
So the question I would have for you today is, where are you in your organization?
Are your employees in it for just a paycheck or do they have deep relationships at work? Are you moving at the speed of trust?
If you’re not exploring how love can boost your performance, you’re missing out. You’re never going to have an elite team without the power of relationships, trust, and love.
The elite teams, the best of the best, the national champions, and those dominating their markets are the ones who demonstrate love for each other. They are the ones fighting shoulder-to-shoulder for each other every day.
If you want to look inside an elite team’s culture, listen to my podcast interview with Dr. Larry Widman.
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