I was a guest on a recent podcast and the host asked me an interesting question:
What’s my definition of success?
I actually had to step back and think about it.
For me, success has never been about money or fame – which are the obvious answers – but I’ve never actually ever thought about my own personal definition.
It’s actually a hard question.
To better understand what success is, I had to change the question around.
Instead, I asked myself this – When have I felt the most successful?
That was an easier question to answer and I could picture the exact moment.
It was the summer of 1992. It was 3 AM in the morning and I was standing watch on the bridge of a nuclear submarine in the middle of the Caribbean Sea. I was the Officer of the Deck in charge of one of the most powerful warships in the world.
There are two things I remember from that night.
First, there’s nothing like seeing the star-filled night sky at sea.
Second, there’s nothing like the feeling of achieving a dream.There's nothing like the feeling of achieving a dream. Click To Tweet
That was the moment I felt the most successful. I had achieved something I worked hard for almost eleven years to achieve.
Let me explain.
When I first realized I wanted to be on submarines. I was in 8th grade. I was fascinated with the stories of the WWII submariners and how nuclear submarines played a critical role in the Cold War.
I knew this was something I wanted to do. It was my dream to one day serve on these boats.
The problem was, I also knew I had to become technically strong if I wanted to achieve this dream.
I had to do well in High School and excel in Math and Science. I also had to get into a good Engineering School and do well enough to get accepted into the highly competitive Navy Nuclear Power Program.
Fortunately for me, perseverance and eight years of hard work were enough to get me a commission as a Naval Officer and get accepted into the Navy Nuclear Power Program. But that was just the beginning.
The year-long Nuclear Power Program was brutal. Many of my good friends were cut from the program because they couldn’t keep up with the pace. I was in over my head as well.
But I made it through.
And I persevered through submarine school and three more months of trying to get a medical waiver for an episode of kidney stones I once had in college.
But I made it through. And finally – I made it to the fleet.
Then I discovered this was just the beginning of another process. I needed to get qualified as a submarine officer before I could stand watch and achieve my dream. A process that would take almost another year.
But I made it through.
In April of 1992, I became a qualified submariner. I had the gold dolphins pinned on my chest. I had achieved my lifelong dream of becoming a submariner.
And that summer, at 3 AM in the morning, in the middle of the Caribbean Sea, doing the job I had dreamed of since I was a child – I felt the most successful.
So, what’s my definition of success?
I think it’s simple.
It’s about doing the hard work to chase a dream and then, one day, actually achieving that dream.Success is about doing the hard work to chase a dream and then, one day, actually achieving that dream. Click To Tweet
What do you think? How would you define success?
Is it fortune and fame or is it more than that?
Reach out to me on Twitter and let me know.